The Gospel simply said & relation to the family

"The gospel is fundamentally about transformation, not simply conformity; about restoring brokenness, not simply avoiding it; and about relationships, not simply roles. The family structures we embrace are not goals in and of themselves. They are ultimately made for the benefit of loving relationship, for the larger goal of loving God and each other." ~ Gospel Coalition 

http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2012/10/03/when-the-gospel-hits-home/